A lot of women don’t like the idea of their husbands to be going to a strip club. Somehow, the idea of a naked woman grinding on your man’s lap feels wrong. Some people even say it feels like being cheated on. The fact that your man enjoyed his strip club experience, does not mean he cheated on you.
They are frustrating because they are being teased and nothing more. There usually never any touching and there definitely is no kissing and the experience for most guys is unsatisfying as they are teased and there is actually no chance that a stripper will actually hook up with your man.
They may, take their clothes off, do that sultry dance of, state at your man with so much list he actually starts believing she wants him. It’s all an act. The more attention, she is getting from your guy the more money she gets to make. That’s the goal, that’s the only goal. She probably has a man at home. Of she met your man anywhere after the bucks party, she probably wouldn’t even know who he was or what happened at the strip club.
There’s no reason or merits of arguing against the fact that a bucks night at the strippers should include a lap dance. It’s standard in every club that offers buck party packages. It’s part of dude logic. Of you buy popcorn at the movies, and beer at the rugby game, you buy a lap dance at a strip club. Your guy may swear that he wouldn’t step in a strip club, that all he’s going to do with the guys is drink and hang out. His friends, on the other hand, might have other ideas. If they came out for a bucks send off, there are some traditions they simply can’t skip.
If you found out he lied about something that was no big deal in his mind, you might wonder what else he would lie about. You are marrying this guy so you should hold him accountable.
Lying about spending their bucks night at the strippers club is the kind of lie an 8-year old tells about not playing games on his computer when he should be doing his homework. He will promise he won’t play but the second you leave his room, he’ll do exactly what he wasn’t supposed to do
The bottom line: Men are children when it comes to rationalizing certain things. In his mind, the lap dance at the strip club was no big deal besides, no one was supposed to tell (with the “what happens at bucks parties stays at bucks parties” code) but someone will and there are pictures and video that will do the rounds. You should get not give your moral high ground by exploding and having a reaction that is disproportionate to the crime. He messed up. You will have to let it go. Better yet, let h take you to a strip club so you can have a better sense of what really goes on.
